They say that we, humans, are social creatures, meaning?
Even though at times we like being by ourselves, there are always times when we still need other people around us, either to share our stories with them or to share our emotions.
Yes, it’s true.
No matter how individual you are, sometimes you still need other people to keep you sane, ahahaha, cause if you were left alone with your thoughts for too long, you might as well have difficulties to separate the real world with your imaginary one.
Anywayy..
Have you ever felt like no one understands you?
And sometimes you just feel real tired to make them understand what’s going on inside your head, about how you see things that different from the way they see?
Not to mention how sometimes you have to hold and bite your tongue not to blurt out some words so that you won’t have any never ending arguments that will surely drain your energy to the lowest level possible!
So, it’s always.. always nice to finally meet someone who can understand you much more that anyone else ever could in your life.
Someone who thinks in the same frequency like you do.
Someone who truly understands how you feel about things cause that person always feel the way you do.
Someone who you can finally called as your soul companion!
It’s like finding an oase in the middle of a desert after soo long you get exhausted under the burning sun!
And perhaps, by finding your own soul companion, you can trust yourself again that it’s okay to at times have different opinions against the mainstreams.
‘Cause you’re not alone.
Even though at times you might feel lonely among the crowds.
But at least now you know..
That those loneliness might be because you are in the wrong kind of crowds, ahahaha ^o^
-Indah-
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Hello again Indah,
You have a way of writing, which speaks to others directly, it’s very vivid and captivating.
I am half and half on what you write in this entry, as there is a lot more(simpler) going on underneath depedent on person and experience.
I can connect with the moral story, from that regard.
Sometimes (well where moral kind of stories are concerned) generalisations are just a fraction of the whole truth, even as connected as can be, and can take away the essence of what is actually happening. This can often mould into something which is perceivable to be true, just like the scratching of a surface, that misses the workings of the inside.
Nice to be replying. Enjoying your blog. YEY
Comment by Ana July 7, 2009 @ 11:00 pmNow what I truly feel, putting aside the coating:
I think the perception that we are alone has been embedded into our societies for so long, that it has distorted who we are as human beings. That’s probably a good connection to your first question, though saying we are creatures and relating it to social order would make it unrealistic as creatures don’t live in a social environment, and we have a completetly different purpose as humans, therefore that wouldn’t make us creatures. Back to being alone – that has grown into a depedency. Connection is central yes, but we don’t need people around to be connected. We are part of the connection, and that awareness stems from deep inside ourselfs thus creating universal love. The love that does not depend on loneliness, but on understanding ourselfs rather, loving ourselfs, loving others, loving the world as it is. I have realised that just because someone gets you better than another person, it doesn’t make this person more favourable. I think ultimatetly it’s about your own expression for yourself, before it is transcended onto others. All people are equal and you can connect with everyone. Everyone ‘gets’ everyone, when they take the kindness and awareness to connect into one another.
Comment by Ana July 7, 2009 @ 11:53 pmIf you read my new poem – that very much reflects the trap of the moral poisoned emotional mind. For one brief moment, I felt that and It was good to just spurt it out, though underneath I didn’t feel a thing. It was all trickery really.
Comment by Ana July 8, 2009 @ 9:22 pmNot saying this is evil, it’s an experience, one which I know for me personally, is unrealistic and distorting.
Comment by Ana July 8, 2009 @ 9:22 pm